presents
Ron L. Cherry, Author
Christmas Cracker
Thank you Ron for another outstanding
post for my blog. It is a pleasure to
have you return and I invite you to come back anytime you like.
Here we share with you Ron's life in a
small way but wanted you to see what a great author and person he truly is. Be
sure to visit his web site.
As a native of California, R. L. Cherry
has spent most of his life in the Golden State. However, the five years he
lived on the Isle of Man in the British Isles not only gave him many ideas for
his writing, but also a less Americentric perspective. Until Christmas Cracker, his only bound
publication was his Masters’ thesis. A copy is on a shelf in the library of the
Centre for Manx Studies on the Isle of Man, possibly the only American
contribution. For over five years he has written a column under the name Ron
Cherry on classic cars and hot rods for The Union newspaper in Grass Valley,
CA, which reflects his passion for such works of automotive art.
--
R.L. Cherry
The following is the post from R.L.
Cherry as he shares his visit to Ireland:
Irish
Hospitality and Inhospitality
When I read Mamie’s book
Extraordinary Ireland, it brought back memories of my trips there. Her only encounter with a rude Irish hotel
staff reminded me of the only time I experienced the same, although in a place
she missed: Glendalough. But that
encounter also gave me an experience in true Irish hospitality.
Before we left for
Ireland in 1993, a very good friend of ours in California, Father Tim (or Tadgh
in Irish) MacCarthy, gave us the names and contact information for two of his
brothers in Ireland. You will find Father
Tim in my upcoming book Foul Shot and he is the only character that is based on
a real person, albeit transported from Southern California to Chicago for the
sake of the story. He is a warm and
generous man and we found his brothers to be the same. My wife Kelly, my daughter Noelle and I left
Dublin in the morning in our rented car, toured the stately Powerscourt Gardens
(with the shell of the mansion standing guard) and visited the stunning
Powerscourt Falls (the highest in Ireland) before driving down to Graystones, where
Jim MacCarthy and his wife Annette lived.
Our plan was to have dinner with them before driving up to Glendalough
in the Wicklow Mountains. We had made
reservations at the Glendalough Hotel, which was the only hotel there and
highly rated. Upon booking we had been
advised that our payment was non-refundable because the rooms would be held for
us whether we showed or not.
Annette met us in
Graystones and led us to their house.
Our plan had been to take them and their family out to dinner at a local
restaurant. When we arrived at their
house, Jim was still on his way driving back from Cork (several hours on Irish
roads). Their daughter Aine was about
the same age as Noelle and they had much in common, including being avid
swimmers, so they soon were off in Aine’s room enjoying themselves. When Jim arrived home, it was getting late
and he was tired, so Annette decided to rustle up a quick dinner. For a salad, she chopped up raw onions and
tomatoes with a little oil as dressing.
Now two things Noelle despised most at that time were raw onions and
tomatoes, but she had been taught to eat whatever was served her when she was a
guest. Kelly told Annette and they
decided to see what would happen. When
we sat down to dinner and the food was passed around, Annette handed Noelle the
salad. She did not react, but swiftly
passed it to the next person without taking any of her most despised
foods. Annette and Kelly started to
laugh. Fortunately, their kids were far
more picky than Noelle, so Annette just saw it as amusing.
There are times in life
when you meet people for the first time and feel like you’ve known them for
years. That is how it was with Jim and
Annette. Jim was a pipe smoker and, at
that time, I was too. Jim liked a glass
of whiskey and I did too (and still do).
But it was the conversation that kept us there far later than we should
have been. It was about 10 when we were
reluctantly ready to leave and Jim said to call the hotel to make sure there
would be no problems. I called,
identified myself and said I was making sure the room we had paid for was
ready. The desk clerk laid the phone
down. After waiting for about 10
minutes, I hung up and called again. The
line was busy. I tried a few more times,
then gave up and decided to drive to the hotel.
We were on the coast at
Graystones and it was a bit of a drive up to Glendalough. Jim said he would drive his car to guide us
there. These were the days before a cell
phone or a GPS. We had a good map, but
at night that was not that great in Ireland.
So we accepted Jim’s offer and Aine went along to keep him company. As we drove the narrow, winding roads with
minimal or non-existent signage that went up the Wicklow Mountains, I was very
grateful he was in the lead. It took
almost an hour and a half to get there.
When we finally arrived, the front door to the hotel was locked. There was a pub attached, so we went through
its door and then into the hotel. That’s
when things took a turn for the worst.
I soon understood why
the front door had been locked, even though we should have been expected. Our rooms, we were told, had been given to
others because they thought we weren’t coming.
I guess getting paid twice for the rooms had been too great a
temptation. There were no other rooms
available. At that point, Jim stepped
forward. Now, he had seemed the very
easy-going, convivial sort all night, but I saw the fire of an Irish warrior in
his eyes as he said, “This is not how we treat our guests in Ireland.” The young man behind the counter was shaking
in his boots as he said, “Well, there is one room we might offer. It’s a staff room, but no one is sleeping
there tonight.” We went to check it out.
The room was a pigsty,
with dirty clothes strewn about and unmade beds. I could see Noelle tearing up. Jim was furious. “You’re coming back to our house,” he
said. This was not a matter for
discussion. He called Annette and told
her to make up their son’s room (he was away at university) because we were on
our way. The hotel attendant generously
offered to refund our money. I hate to
think what Jim would have done if he had not.
It was one in the
morning when we got back to Jim and Annette’s.
Kelly and I had a room with twin beds and clean sheets. Noelle shared a room with Aine. When we finally awoke, Annette served us a
full Irish breakfast. Jim was already at
work. Because of us, he had been late to
bed and early to rise. But I will never
forget the great Irish hospitality they gave us, nor the horrible hospitality
the Glendalough Hotel gave us. Although
we did not have time to see Glendalough’s wonderful and inspiring monastery
that trip, we did see it on our next one.
I heartily recommend taking the time to drive up the beautiful Wicklow
Mountains to see it. I cannot recommend
the hotel. But if Jim and Annette ever
open a B&B, there you will find true Irish hospitality.
Thank you for following,
Rosemary "Mamie" Adkins
A bit of happenstance here, as I just happen to be reading Christmas Cracker right now. I am enjoying it a lot. Interesting that you chose to make your main character a woman.
ReplyDeleteWhen we traveled Ireland, we stayed primarily in B and Bs. They were run by delightful, hospitable people. However, the hotels we stayed at were also run by delightful, hospitable people. Thankfully, we never ran into what sounds like a horror hotel--not in Ireland.
ReplyDeleteI've never had an urge to go to Ireland, but all these great stories are tempting me. Your holiday is coming up too:)
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